Feeling that desire to chase a man? Should you never chase a man?
How to make a man chase you is what you really want.
When he’s not paying attention, and you want him or want him to chase you, the urge pops up to chase him, but the big question is: should you chase him?
So many women are confused on this point in “modern times”.
My video below dives into this topic.
“Chase” means to pursue, “accidentally” run into, send a text, “happen” to be at the same gym or bar he goes to, “need” to go to his workplace, etc.
In other words, chasing a man is finding reasons to engage with him, especially when he’s not pursuing you, in order to *hopefully* get something between the two of you going as in dating or him paying romantic attention towards you or more consistent attention.
Check out my video here on this very subject where I answer the question and explain to you tips of what to do.
Please watch my video on this topic here.
Did you get the tips? I gave more than six, and I’m curious if you got them and are willing to try some out, so please leave a comment below.
As always, thanks for reading and being vulnerable enough to share.
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I agree 100%, however, this is something that I already knew. I’m looking for some new information for myself. I hope the young girls these days will listen, understand what your saying and keep control of themselves when they find themselves attracted to a man. Good advice 🙂
Hi Penni and thanks for the comment. Please let me know if there was an area I can address for you to get you the information you need. Thanks for reading and agreeing. Best, Christine
Hi Christine!
You are soooooooo right, Christine! Never chase a man! I chased a boy almost all the time during my high school years. In the end, he never knew I was crazy about him, and he hardly even knew I was alive. I was so sure we were right for each other. Now I will never know if we could have had a relationship that would have worked out, as he went on to other places after graduation. How sad is that?
Hi Ann,
Well it does feel frustrating doesn’t it?! Society doesn’t teach us how to engage with men we’re attracted to and we resort to chasing him to try to capture him and we don’t see the signs that the guy is running from our chasing. I, like many women, made up “reasons” for the guy’s behavior like “oh he must be shy” or “he needs a little push”. Little do we know we’re pushing them away. But, now we know! Thanks for the comment and sharing. Love it!!
So, if you’ve been chasing a man and want to reverse the situation, what do you suggest?
Hi Julie,
It’s always best to just stop the behavior that is ineffective and replace it with the ideal. Read through all of my blog posts for more tips and know that if the right guy will come around quickly and respond to your feminine behavior.
Hugs,
Christine
Well, so… If a man treats you like a friend is it possible to “make him” (it sounds horrible) to chase you?
Or you just have to accept that he is just not into you?
Hi Roxie,
I’m laughing, and of course you already know you can’t make anyone do anything. But you can be so feminine it will catch a man’s eye. Feminine being “in energy.”
Best,
Christine
100% per cent right! I have lost contact with all the men I chased 🙁 I thought that it was some kind of miscommunication, that I need to clarify things, try harder, reach out my hand to sort things out. When a man pulls back it feels so terrible. But you have to anticipate that this will inevitably happen from time to time, and this is when we need to love ourselves more… Like you say, we crave that high and we are going cold turkey for a while and we need to…it’s hard to find the words. But I will try my best to self control next time it happens 🙂