Yesterday I mentioned that women can be ballsy.
Relationship goo-roos all know that some women can write them over 1,000 words of their problems and never ask a question but expect an answer.
I call them a Fog Hog. (Yes I know “labeling isn’t nice” but it’s about their behavior.)
First, when they have to write 1,000 words to get to one question, that’s called Fog. Their problems are so numbered that they fog their mind preventing a necessary ingredient in a relationship: clarity.
Tip: Men like to hear ONE question. And they’re bringing fifty? Ghost, ghost, ghost.
Next, “Hog:” They EXPECT to hog the time of anyone who’ll listen (sometimes it’s the guy) about their complaints in uteroship.
They’ll blather on and on (men hate that) and hog up the guy’s time. The Fog Hogs are ballsy, but not in a way that means anything positive. If the guy gets sucked into placating them, they never say thank you.
Now, on to the men. Men can be ballsy in the same turn-off sort of way. How?
Demanding sex in the first two dates, or having sex and ghosting, knowing this rubs most women the wrong way. They too want what they want and then bolt without a thank you for your time and attention or whatever.
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Denial will always prevent you from seeing your Fog Hog or other el-poop-o ways with the opposite sex.
Christine Rich Hanson
Master certified relationship/dating/couples coach, teacher and author