Why Isn’t He Introducing Me To Anyone Like His Family & Friends?
You like your guy a lot, and then you start to notice a relationship milestone that pops up in your mind like many women encounter when dating men: Why isn’t he introducing me to those close to him?
Before you panic and start asking your boyfriend why he hasn’t introduced you to anyone, you need some relationship advice before a bigger problem develops.
Somewhere in the history of dating men, a woman decided, certainly without any dating tips, that if her man she’s dating isn’t introducing her to his friends, family, and parents, it meant the worst. It meant that he’s not that into her, he’s not going to commit, he’s using her, he’s up to no good, and she’s wasting her time with him.
The cad.
But it could also mean, in the relationship milestone hurdles, that the lack of introduction to his inner circle is NOT a predictor of a break-up to come. It could simply mean that he is a guy.
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In the vast land of Signs He Wants A Relationship, is being introduced to his closest entourage an absolute predictor to your future as a couple?
If you scour the Internet there are lots of advocates of just that.
This article says to break up with him immediately if you’ve confronted him about this topic and he doesn’t take action soon.
I’m sure the author had good protective dating advice intentions for women.
For me, it’s about trusting yourself first and knowing that if your intuition is going off like a five alarm bell, you’ll exit to safety. Or get a relationship coach to hold your hand and drag you out of the fire.
But in the regular fare of life, yes, it’s typical (through societal conditioning) to be cool one day with your boyfriend hunk and then suddenly feel panic that he’s not introducing you or inviting you to family or friends.
One minute you were fine and the next minute you weren’t.
I propose that sudden flip-flopping derives from a victim-expectation that you’ve given meaning to which becomes a requirement from you for him to satisfy.
Sort of like at some point there was no Valentine’s Day, and now there is the business-creation Hallmark Cards/Florist/Chocolates Valentine’s Day to prod women to expect love celebration on February 14.
Your victim-expectation goes: if the bf isn’t bringing the Valentine’s stuff, then-surely-he-doesn’t-love-you. A great boyfriend won’t bite because to do so he agrees that you are going to be a victim if he doesn’t serve up.
If you are okay with the relationship and then out of the blue, and tied to a societal belief that “he should be doing ____,” that sort of pressure on a guy to accommodate your dating milestones isn’t going to feel fair to him.
Please watch my video on this topic here.
I know the urgency of looking for those social-proof signs he’s in a relationship with you to the detriment of all the great things he is doing right.
You may yearn for external signs of validation that the relationship is going somewhere besides Breakupville or Nowheresville as though having those signs were signals from the Universe that this relationship was destined for eternity.
I remember a guy I was dating, and I twisted things so that I could meet his children and afterward…nada. It didn’t change a thing between him and me, and it didn’t end up meaning what I thought my mind had conjured it up to be! We did not progress as a couple.
Let’s go back to that fictitious woman in dating history.
It’s 264 BC of men dating and our protagonist has given great weight to whether her Roman gladiator Brutus is sincere to her as a meaningful wife mate in the first relationship milestone ever.
Amazonia: “Brutus, it cometh to my attention you have deprived me of meeting your gladiator friends. I take this as a sign that you doth have no love for me. Please explaineth yourself.”
Brutus: “Huh? I mean…what sayeth you?”
Amazonia: “You go off with your friends and they don’t knoweth of me, thereforest does this mean I am not of serious consequence in your life to be known to others?”
Brutus: “Amazonia, we are off doing great battles. Most of my gladiator friends die with swords in their lower netherlands. Why bother introducing you to them? What bearing dost that have upon our great love?”
Amazonia: “Well what about your parents? I should meet them so that I can see myself as proper in your eyes. There must be signs you want a relationship.”
Brutus: “My parents are 18 days of riding in a chariot away, and, since the empire is under attack, I must do battle to save me and you which seemeth more important than an excursion to meeteth my parents.”
Amazonia: “But without it you may just be using me like a chamber maid, WHICH I AM NOT!”
Brutus: “You doth protest too much. I must don my armor and leave for work. My chariot awaits for battle.”
There you have it. While your sudden and urgent belief compels you to seek an introduction to all of your guy’s closest folks, it’s easy to dismiss that there is someone else in the mix—him–and his desires!
And he has his opinions and views.
They may differ from yours and are no less valid.
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No one holds the omnipresent view point of what action now ensures a “perfect” future later.
He may not want to put pressure on the relationship, he may dread the drama of his parents, he may fear that one introduction will result in pressure to make babies, he may not even have value for such introductions as he’s anti-Hallmark corporation of drummed up meaning for particular events, he may– 100 other things– none of which means he doesn’t take you seriously.
What you want is your relationship etched in his heart. There is where it matters most.
Now let’s reverse it, and we may find that if your desire for your external acknowledgment were to happen, it would not at all move you up the relationship milestone ladder as you thought. It’s just an event that comes and goes.
Let’s say it’s 4 – 10 months in and you have that snap, that moment that “he should be introducing me because I’m not his chamber maid, I mean hook-up.”
And lo and behold, he invites you to his brother’s wedding.
You feel in. Insider in.
This invite to go as your man’s date has to mean something right?
The wedding ceremony, holding his hand, breathing in that he is sending you a signal of future marriage to you. Ahhh.
Him introducing you to EVERYONE ALL AT ONCE on such a BIG day when you are rocking the LBD. There are his parents, his sister, his brother and new wife, all of his relatives, his college friends, his 3rd grade teacher, his orthodontist from high school, even his ex-post college girlfriend who you vaguely thought was only a friend and now you’re finding out they actually dated for a year but oh well you’re with him now, sister!!
You are looking at the wedding reception napkins and trying to decide if your couple initials will be in gold or silver on your wedding day.
Slow forward to two weeks later.
Something has gone wrong. You didn’t see it coming.
As you look at his face and see his lips moving you hear a broken conversation with word shrapnel landing on your ears as your heart feels a death grip only love can bring…
“…thinking…been unsure…not hurt you…understand…your friendship…timing…”
Yeah, whatever. He just broke up with you.
That is why these relationship milestones mean nothing on a significant spiritual level.
And they don’t mean anything without considering the man.
You may be his walk-off-into-the-sunset-girl.
Don’t make events more important than the quality of his love and how you feel around him.
It’s far better not to get caught up in our expectational minds with a flip-flop moment that’s bringing fear and urgency. And those moments could be expecting Valentine’s gifts, or it means he doesn’t love you. Or if he doesn’t introduce you to his parents it means you’re not significant to him. Or if he doesn’t let you meet his friend that means he’s having an affair. Or if he doesn’t stop what he’s doing to meet you to do something, you dramatically assure yourself and him he has ruined your day.
In those random flip-flop moments where you’re creating an expectation that has “victim” written all over it, here’s what to do:
- Realize it’s all a self-created illusion.
- Realize this is just a conditioned moment and dig in to pull out of it. Creating a story of expectation won’t serve you.
- You may have, spiritually, created the expectation of healing some deep pain so that you can have more love capacity for yourself.
- Feel your judgment and angst over what he’s not doing according to your cute mind and pivot to a better direction.
- Do the thing that you always have in your life that brings you joy such as your pet project, your hobby, your thing that satisfies you.
You are okay. You realize that an external socialized marker such as introductions to your bf’s inner circle may not be what society has it cracked up to be. Instead, it’s all about what’s in his heart and your connection to that love.
And, of course, your love for you.
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I’d love to hear from you below. Have you ever longed for your boyfriend to acknowledge you to others to then have it not feel as you had imagined?
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Hi Christine, I’m glad I found your article because I’m going through the exact same thing but every other articles would just told me to move on basically.
I’m a 32 year old woman and been dating my boyfriend (31 yo) for almost a year now. We met on tinder during pandemic and we just hit it off. We have this special connection that I never felt with anyone else before. He just “gets” me, if that makes sense.
He lives in Europe and I’m in Asia, but that doesn’t seem to stop us from getting to know each other and we would spend hours on the phone talking about everything and nothing sometimes. We would talk on the phone or video calls, and even though I never see him in person, I feel like I already know him so much because I saw him on my screen a lot. So when we made it official, I told my friends about him. He also sent me flowers to my parent’s house (it was during lockdown and I spent it on my hometown), so then I told my parents about him. Of course they were a bit worried because I never met him and he lives faraway (what if he’s a catfish?). I understand why they were worried so I would let my mom talk to my boyfriend sometimes on the phone just for them to get to know each other. It’s seems that all the important people in my life already know about our relationship. Because I always think, just because he’s not here doesn’t mean he can’t be a part of my life.
After 3 months of dating I asked him if his family or friends knew about me and he said no. He said that he’s always been a private person and never talked about personal stuff with his friends or family. This lead to several arguments because being kept as secret doesn’t sit well with me. I started to feel insecure, that maybe he’s embarrassed of me. He said that he’s protecting me; he’s worried that they’re going to judge him for finding a girlfriend on an online dating apps and wether if his parent would find it hard to understand because he’s parents are old and don’t know that kind of stuff (even though my parents are older than his and I’ve faced the same problems but I managed to have them some understanding). He said that he’ll tell them when he’s going to visit me. At least by that time, they’ll know that we’re both serious. I trust him and let it passed.
We planned for him to come visit me in January, but during December, covid situation in both of our countries were hitting the second wave so I told him to just come here later when it’s safe for him to travel. It’s March now and the vaccination process in our countries are sooooo sloowww and his government already made an announcement that the lockdown in their country could be prolonged until June. I was sad of course because I want to be with him so bad, but he kept reassuring me that he’s going to be here as fast as he could once the situation is better. I know that it’s hard for him too so I try to understand. But today when we were just talking on the phone for half an hour, his friend showed up unexpectedly at the park were he was at and he asked me if he could hang up right away. I always allowed and even encouraged my boyfriend if he wants to but I can’t say that I’m not hurt when he can’t wait to hang up on me in case his friend got closer. The doubt and fear that I have months ago crept back in. His friends get to see him everyday and I could only spent time with him on the phone. I know if his friends know that he wants to spend sometime with his long distance girlfriend they would understand.
He said that it’s not about me and asked me to trust him. I do trust him, but it’s also hard not to be insecure about it and not take it personally. Am I being dramatic and overthinking here? Please help. (And sorry for the ultra long paragraphs). Thank you so much Christine
Hi Okky,
It’s difficult to know where his head is at but a couple of things to realize. You two are creating an artificial relationship based on non-physical. I know that’s obvious, but, when you two ever get to be together, it will likely fall apart. All of your “togetherness” is through technology and that will be gone as soon as you two get in front of each other. His smell, his physical size, his movement, the way he eats, touches you, it will be not what you’ve based it on so far.
He likely doesn’t tell his friends and family because they will say he’s nuts. I get that. And he can’t be “all in” and declaring his love for you because HE’S NEVER MET YOU IN PERSON. So what you have is pen pals and a 50-50 shot that it develops but with a year of just talking, the high odds are that it won’t happen. Just my two cents. After a Covid “clear” you may find him making excuses to delay meeting. The best you can do right now is to be open to dating others and not be locked in as a gf until you two can be together in person. Hugs.
I’ve been dating a man I met on Tinder for about 7 months. We live in different states, so we don’t see each other much—other than one day each weekend. We’ve declared our mutual love for each other. He has met a couple of my friends, my father and been to my home.
I haven’t met anyone in his life yet. I asked him why and he says his 26 year old daughter who lives with him would be upset to know he’s dating. (He’s been divorced for 4 years and his ex has moved on.) He said he has a lot going on and needs time. In addition his phone isn’t traceable to an address. He’s ex military, so that makes some sense to me.
I don’t buy the excuses and wonder what you think. Am I being impatient or is this a red flag?
Hi Anne,
Check out my email that goes out on Mondays to subscribers. It will address this. In the meantime: RED FLAG. Run now! He’s full of bull.
Hello Christine,
I have been dating my boyfriend for 1year and 4 months. I have met his mother, whose dementia has progressed and his nephew (30s). He is 1 of 4 children. He has 3 sisters and his relationship with them is broken. He has a God-Family or surrogate family that he speaks often and highly about. I have yet to meet them. It is Easter weekend and he said that his God Family we’re going to have a weekend long festivities – noting specifically on Friday, Saturday and Sunday they would be having a cookout, bbq etc. He did not invite me and I would like to be honest, that I do feel some sort of way about it.
I welcome your thoughts/opinion and thank you.
Hi. The best thing is to share how you feel and inquire especially if you normally get invited.
Hi Christine,
You really hit the spot with me with the mention where this need or conditioning comes from; wanting to be introduced to his wider social circle – victim mentality. However, I feel we are part of a social circle as well, so the need is real to fit the relationship into a social and not just personal construct.
I wanted to ask you, if I know that my bf has in the past introduced his ex to his family and has kept me sort of private, is this a cause for concern and he is genuinely a nice guy. I have known him for less than a year. At the same time he also keeps irregular contact with her.
I would really appreciate your thoughts on this.
Thank you in advance
Hi Miraa,
Yes, it’s cause for concern if you’ve been dating for almost a year.
Hi, I’ve been dating this guy for sometime now. When we met, he had a fiancee who has a baby for him. But she was treating him so badly and she later left him, putting him in debts and all. Now, it’s been a year since she left. We’ve been having issues, but recently reconciled. He lives with his mother, but currently looking for his own apartment. He is yet to introduce me to his mom, although his sister and friends know me. He says he wants to rent his apartment first before bringing me to his mom’s house for the introduction. I don’t know if he’s being sincere or not.
Hi Belle,
It’s a distancing tactic. He may be worried that you’ll hang out with his mom and invade his space.
Hello Christine
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a yearand five months,everything has been going great so far,hiccups here and there but we’ve always managed to overcome them.
i have a problem with his not introducing me to his family.only his friends knows about me,I’ve asked him to go and introduce me his excuse is always “yes we will go and I’ll introduce you”,months has passed and I’m still waiting to get introduced.
He only posts about me on his whatsapp when it’s my birthday or out anniversary, other than that he doesn’t, even when I asked him to
I need an advice on what to do or make of this…thank you
Hi ltumeleng,
A year and a half is too long not to meet the parents. Your non-verbal answer is that “he doesn’t want to.” Actions speak louder.
Dear Christine,
thank you so much for this article. I my case, we have known each other for 6years, been dating for 4 and lived together for 3years. And I still haven’t met is family. Silly, isn’t it. We are both expats, so don’t get to our home countries that often. I have been in his country of origin only once and back then we were not that close, so I understood why he didn’t bring me to his family or friends. However now, while planning summer, I have raised it again. When he didn’t seem convinced, then I asked directly but gently ‘Why he doesn’t want to?/What is the problem?’ And got such confused responses. ‘Not sure about his life direction.’; ‘His life is not as he was hoping it to be.’ Or even suggested to meet his best friend in the same country and the reaction was: ‘That would be interesting.’ … In the past we have talked about meeting them as a generic idea and he seemed ok, but now, when we actually could, he has chicken out again.
I just don’t understand. I know that he doesn’t know what he wants in his life, but he has concluded in the past, that at least he knows that he wants me. We are living together and managed to overcome some big bumps of the way (we are one of the couples that broke up few times in the past and then got back together). We deeply like each other mentally, sexually, intellectually and are friendly support to each other. Even made a big purchase together. His family knows about me (or so he says). But they knew closely his previous girlfriend. So I really don’t understand… Is he hiding a second family? Is he ashamed of them? Is he ashamed of me? Is he just lazy? Or scared? Or he is staying here as a pandemic buddy? Who knows.. But I am tired..
Sharing for others as the experience could be useful..one never knows..
Any thoughts? I would be grateful..
Btw, a lot of very useful articles! Thank you so much…
Hi Monica,
If you’re 4 years with a guy and no family intro… he’s got a second life he’s hiding.
I have reconnected with a man I dated 40 years ago. He looked me up on social media and we started dating again. He had ended his marriage and I had too. It’s been 3 years now and I have had him attend various functions and he has met my family. I have never been to his house or met any of his family. In the beginning he said please be patient I was fine with that. How long do I get kept in the dark? His kids, all grown know he is dating me as we spend most weekends together. He says he is not sure how they would be if they see me with him. I am so conflicted about our relationship and if I should just move on.
Hi Dee,
There are secrets there. You can date him, but date someone else now too.
Hi Christine,
Thank you for your article.
I have been dating my bf for just over a year now and I am yet to meet his parents/ family. I briefly mentioned this to him and he said “I want you to meet them, but only if you want to”. 2 months passed by and no mention of meeting the parents. I brought it up again recently and he said as we have been arguing lately, perhaps it’s not a good timing now.
Another thing, he has not posted anything with reference to me on his social media. His reason was that he is a “private” person, although his Instagram account is completely public and everyone and anyone can view his pictures/ stories.
Please can you kindly advise?
Thank you x
Hi Daisy,
Unfortunately he’s dating/with you but doesn’t see you as The One. Start dating others.
Hi Christine,
It was great finding your website. You are right that all others would tell me to run or confront him based on my experience. However, they don’t talk about how hard it is to find love, someone that you truly feel at home with, safe with and completely comfortable with. After dating in NYC for over 10 years, I moved to Spain and met the love of my life.
It was during a time when we had curfew because of Covid so our relationship might have moved faster than normal since everything shut down at 10 pm and we spent many nights together. After 2 weeks, he came to my birthday and met many of my friends and important people in my life. I was in heaven. Everything seemed so easy.
He on the other hand has a complicated past with an adorable 10 year old son with a terrible ex-girlfriend. He loves his son and is a great father but wasn’t ready or wanted kids with this ex and in so many words she got pregnant to keep him and get monetary support. It supposedly is a thing in Spain. He told me he didn’t want our relationship known since he was trying to get more custody and time with his son. He signed the paperwork last week to confirm this.
Fast forward to now, it will be a year in September and I am so happy. I have met his son as a friend but really only spent a day hiking with my friends and spent the night sleeping on the couch. I felt amazing but it was 2 months ago in May and no word on meeting him or spending time together again. I mention it but there is no follow up on his end.
I think I have been pretty patient and haven’t pushed him at all about meeting his friends or family. I may casually comment that it would be nice to meet the people that are important in your life but there is no response from him. His parents live 5 minutes from me. He is close and regularly goes over for dinner or lunch.
We went away for a long weekend recently and I was so grateful since I was feeling that maybe he wasn’t feeling the same way about me. After our amazing trip, I kept thinking he loves me and cares about me and I don’t know why I am so concerned. He has never told me he loves me but shows me how much he cares and I am ok with that.
However, literally the next day after our beautiful getaway, I ran into him with some other girl going to lunch. I wasn’t sure if it was a client for work but he was overly casually dressed in flip flops and shorts. We talked since he was obviously surprised to see me and he told me they were going to lunch. No introduction or explanation of who this woman was.
I told myself since I am prone to overthinking and freaking out internally to not let this get to me. I am a strong independent woman and need to make myself happy!! Hours later he messaged me saying he hoped I was not overthinking or worried because I saw him with his friend, that she needed his advice on legal issues and some personal matters and there is nothing to worry about.
Trying to keep cool and not start something, I responded with…”It was a little awkward and weird but you must have had your reasons for not introducing me.” With that no explanation, he changed the subject. I got over it then but it has been 2 weeks and it has been bugging me ever since.
He has gone to hang out with friends and family multiple times recently with no mention of me ever joining. He will have his son soon for Summer break and I am not sure how much I will see him. I think I am a very understanding person and have given him space to do things in his own time. I don’t need to push to meet them. I just want to know the reasons why. Why is he hiding me and our relationship? I know I need to talk to him and let him know my feelings. Any advice would be appreciated. Please let me know your thoughts. Thank you!
Hi Gigi,
He has a complicated life (which he creates) and you want simple as in the two of you. I don’t see that happening. He appreciates freedom more than you. That’s your answer. Start dating someone else.
Hi Christine
I have been with my boyfriend for just over 3 years. His family are from a religion where they do not believe in dating and although they know about me do not want to meet me until we are living together/married. This has not been possible yet due to both being busy with our careers (he’s a doctor and moves around for each placement). He’s met all my family and friends but it’s really bothering me now that I’ve still not met his. His family are very dysfunctional and his parents are together but don’t get along. I asked if any of his exes ever met them and he said when he was at uni one did briefly for a coffee but that was it. It’s really making me overthink and question everything, what should I do?
Hi Lara,
If meeting his parents won’t advance your relationship, and they are dysfunctional, and they don’t want to meet, I’d take the focus off of meeting them. However, put your focus on why the bf hasn’t advanced being together after 3 years.
Have been dating a 29 year old male (I’m 40 female) for 6 months. We live in America he is originally from Albania but moved here when he was 8 so he is Americanized. Still very much culturally Albanian. I think his maturity level / traditional dating style and his foreign upbringing is why we connect even with the age difference. I had big issue with the age at first but decided to entertain it; been single for 4 yrs and my only son is off to college so why not have some fun. Fast forward…
We are together every weekend and multiple times per week, its always him that initiates our meetings. When he doesn’t see me for a day he will bring me coffee midday. Little things like that to consistently see me. We seem to only do things in my bubble though. It’s always sleep overs at my house or hanging at my families house or just us two out on a date.
He expressed falling in love with me first.. which I think made me feel ok to open up my heart to him. So now I’m all out on the table. He knows everything about me and my life and I feel vulnerable.
At first all was giddy and happy and super surprising to me. Was not expecting to feel serious about this 29 yr old. Well… we have had 3 diff conversations over the last few months about us. They go like this:
Him: I want kids, I have to carry on family name. Mayb this is a dead end. Should we end this now or keep this going.. I’m falling deeper. How could anyone let you go your fantastic, I want babies, it is what is. I can’t even look at another woman.
Me: I understand I feel same way; think I’m falling in love with you. I don’t want kids. I’m in diff chapter of life but enjoy spending time with with you. Think I enjoy it too much..
He calls me baby, has uttered the words I love you a few times. I never said them back then during one of the above convos mentioned we prolly shud not use those words if this is not going anywhere.
I feel in a grey area, like we are saying we should be casual and we have no future yet our actions are not casual. Do I believe his actions or words in this scenario?
My point now: I obviously internally desire a hopeless romantic situation.., wish I could just melt into him and fall in love but have these lingering thoughts that I should just let him go. Pursue his life dream find a wife to have babies with etc etc….but I truly desire to be with him
Why does he keep wooing me if it’s a dead issue. He buys dinners and dates always has something in hand when he comes over. I don’t feel taken advantaged of and feel he’s invested more than i but…then again, I haven’t met any family his bubble is very much separate from mine/ours. I thought men were simple. If they want you they will make time for you…if they don’t they won’t. Since he continues to pursue me can I assume there is a chance love can conquer ?
ugh I don’t know. He’s driving me crazy. When he is here I don’t want him to leave… he takes up so much space in my mind. Do I move on or let it take it’s course? Or is he just one big mind f***
Hi Kristan,
He’s wooing you to keep you as a side piece when he finds a woman to have babies with. He’s conditioning you.
Hi Christine,
My boyfriend and I met just over a year ago via a dating app. He lives with his family and they seem to have a strained relationship. I have never met any of his family even though they live less than 30mins away, he says I’m welcome anytime but never get an official invite. We have tried to meet a couple of times but something always comes up their end. He has met most of my family and some of my friends. Up until recently I had met none of his friends! I have now met one very briefly but he didn’t come across very well, quite chauvinistic and inappropriate.
My friends and family are saying it’s really strange that I haven’t met anyone and have even told him so but he blamed the pandemic (obvs not real reason as it hasn’t stopped meeting my friends and family). I once got an invite to meet some friends which was then withdrawn because it was a boys night, he later sends me a video and some of the girlfriends are there…he said he didn’t know they were coming when I questioned it. His family and friends know I exist (I know this for certain) but something just seems off!
Hi Kim,
Something is off… him. If you’re willing to accept b.s. as reasons for him not following through with you, you’re training him to do that always.
Hey Christine,
My boyfriend and I met on Bumble and we’ve been dating for what is now going to be 2 years in December. I see him weekly and talk to him once a week. He’s been cheated on a few times and I know that has caused trust issues. He told me once that he’s introduced his parents to two girlfriends in the past. I’m a little hurt because we have been official for a little more than a year and I haven’t seen any intention of meeting his parents. I have brought it up a few times how much meeting the family is important to me, not like an ultimatum but that it’s a concern. I’ve met a few of his friends and one relative. I’m worried that he doesn’t see a future with me. He also doesn’t open up emotionally with words, but I can see with actions his love sometimes.
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Hi Christine! Thank you for this article. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. And we are in a lost distance relationship. I met his mom, and his friends, but I always feel like he finds a way not to get to close. I’ve been asking for his mom number, so we can be in contact, and he always stalling me, and I found out a couple days ago she’s been asking for my number, too! He keeps saying he will but never does. Same happened with another important thing in our life, hw would say he would, but never did. I just don’t know what to do, because it seems not matter what I do, he always tries something to push me away.
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